it has been one week now since mom and dad entered the MTC. james, bowen and i drove them to the MTC last monday bright and early. we had good conversation on the way down. good laughs too! the goodbyes were obviously the hardest part. bowen now knows that "ga-ma" and "pa-pa" are in "ga-na" and seems to be ok with the idea, even though he'd perfer them here to show him the "neigh neighs!" after i tell him that they are in Ghana because they love jesus, he's content.
i miss my mom. a lot. we were together nearly everyday and you can imagine the bordom that now fills her void. shopping isn't as fun, cause i don't have my partner in crime (don't get me wrong...i still go, oh, how i still go!) and i definately miss her yummy dinner's she'd feed me when james was late from work. and boy how i miss that she "wanted" to change every poopy diaper that bowen had to offer. she is truly a mother that no one can replace, and i miss her.

i miss dad. his quiet wisdom and good conversation. i miss that he was so eager to take bowen to see the horses and give me a minute to rest. i love that he never cared if bowen jumped on the couch while he watched golf and that he showed bowen all the good football plays. man, i love them.
after we dropped them off we took a trip to the hoagle zoo. mostly because james and i didn't want to cry for the three hour drive home. but also because, bowen had never been, james had taken the day off, and we needed some family time. (thanks mom and dad for suggesting it, it was exactly what we needed.) bowen loved the animals and i loved the new baby elephant, zuri. she was the most adorable thing i had ever seen (except my own baby of course!) we went on the carosol, the train and occupied the gift shop for quite some time too. as soon as we made it home we filled the trailer and started moving. 



now, we're in a new house. not new to me, but new to us! we now have three homes to care for. lawns and cleaning just tripled on our to-do list. we feel overwhelmed at times but more than that we feel blessed. blessed to have parents willing to serve the Lord. blessed to be able to help them. blessed to be able to hear the mission stories and feel of the spirit more frequently. blessed everyday.







i hope you all know that i have a testimony of my Savior. I know that regardless of the hard goodbyes, my parents have made the best decision they could have in serving Him. I know that my Heavenly Father will help me through the next two years and that we will continue to see blessings from Him through His tender mercies.
here's to a new normal.
9 comments:
Just been catching up on your blog... I LOVE looking at it, makes me wanna cry, i want a cute family like yours... Not that i want your fam. Just a fam of my own! And i love your hair it's so adorable!!! And good for your parents, i bet you will miss them like crazy, i don't know what i would do without my parents... I'm so happy for you, looks like life is treating you well! ;)
Marci:
You made me cry again! This was an amazing post. Thank you for the kind words. We are so blessed to have you as our daughter.Your new normal is going to be an a grand adventure. Enjoy every min. and we will be back before you know it!
We love and miss you,
Elder & Sister Saunders (still getting use to the title!)
Oh, what a sweet post! I didn't know you had already moved out of your home. We could have helped you move and would have loved to help you move. Are you completely out or do you need some help? What a sweet, tender post! Your parents will surely be back before you know it, right?? Love ya!
What a beautiful post. I am sure it is a struggle that I can't imagine but it is true they will be back before you know it! What a great idea to go to the zoo afterward. I am sure Bowen loved it. Also love the family pictures -such a cute family!
That would be so hard Marci! I would miss my parents like crazy! They are doing what is right and it is so cool someday I want to go on a mission with my hubby! Love the pictures looks like you had a blast at the zoo!
Your parents seem like they are the sweetest people ever :) And what a wonderful daughter you are! It's hard to say that "hope the next two years fly by!" because it'll be so spiritually beneficial to your parents and you and your little family will grow so much too. Sometimes the best things are the hardest things. Hope everything else is going well for you three!
Okay I have to admit that I did tear up a little bit looking at the pics and reading your post. I'm bummed that you are gone. I really had good intentions of stopping by with a plate of goodies to send you off with!! I hope that time flies by for you and school keeps going well. Come vist the old neighborhood lots!!
Amazing post. I cried... I miss you- Seems like we didn't get to be neighbors for too long but I know we will be friends forever. I will look for you every time I am at the Temple since that is the first place I met you!
Congrat to your parents, they are examples to us all!
You're the best. Missions bless the lives of everyone and you are a blessing in mine. What amazing words by an amazing person. I'm so excited for your parents! They will be great missionaries.
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